Divorce, Impulsivity & Boundaries: Viewer submission (paraphrased): I'm divorcing my wife after 33 years of spending issues and the problems that have caused multiple problems in our marriage. There's also a co-worker who is sending me sexual exchanges and I want to be with her. I'm confused [...]
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Sexless Marriage Question: Due to the length of the question submitted, we will summarize it for you: This reader wrote to us because he struggles in his marriage. His partner began to shy away from sex and intimacy before getting married and much more so after having [...]
Don't you just love kissing? Ahhh, that delicious, warm, soft moment when your lips touch...the KISS If all kisses were like that, but they aren't. Why? Sometimes it is technique, sometimes it is just that you aren't feeling it. If you are desiring a greater connection with your partner, [...]
Should you schedule Sex? Part One of Two.... We schedule just about everything these days but the idea of scheduling nookie seems to make some people cringe. Why? Well, people struggle with scheduling sex for a lot of reasons....and we want to put some into perspective. It isn't romantic. [...]
Is Porn Accepted in Your Relationship? Many couples have conflict about the role of pornography in their relationship. You may flat out refuse to allow it. You might sneak your viewing and keep it a secret. You may view porn as cheating. You might use it to learn about [...]
Should you schedule Sex? Part Two.... In Part One I talked about the misconceptions associated with scheduling sex with your partner. READ Part One HERE. In this post, I want to share the important tips for having the conversation about scheduling sex and how you can make this activity [...]
Question: This request came in to our portal a few weeks ago and it hits on a subject that so many couples struggle with -- emotional affairs. Hi Carolynn, Thank you for the videos that you do, they have been super helpful! I have a situation where [...]
Question: During sex I feel like I am doing all of the work, sex is seeming like a one way thing and my girlfriend doesn’t reciprocate acts or seem interested in focusing on me. She is always ‘too tired’ or just says no. I’m really struggling with [...]
Question: This question was submitted by one of our viewers. "Wife with low sex drive, but we can never seem to find a resolution." My wife and I have been married 20 years with 3 kids, and I would say that maybe the first 2-3 years of [...]
Question: This is an incredibly important question. In our practice, our therapists have Masters Degrees and are licensed in New Jersey. This means we have done post-graduate work, a few thousand hours before we can be licensed. We have several additional certifications...listen in to learn more. ********* [...]