Q. I just found out I am losing interest in sex and when I have the urge, I don’t get satisfied easily and as a result, I don’t even reach orgasm anymore. What do I do or should I abstain totally? Please, I need your help. Thanks.

A. Interest, arousal and climax are all interconnected. One influences the other. Watch the video below to understand more about it’s complexities, particularly the piece about medical concerns.


This video is for educational purposes only. This video is not intended to be psychotherapy or a replacement for psychotherapy.

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