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October 2019

Welcome Insiders to October’s Relationship Building Activities!


We Make Our Own Rules!

Your relationship, Your rules….

You got this πŸ‘ŠπŸ»! Seems that when you get coupled up, everyone has an opinion. Guess what…none of that matters. You and your partner make your own rules and you don’t have to listen to anyone else. What works for you? That is all that matters. Now, get on with yo’ bad self and live and love the way you want! πŸ’₯


Between the Sheets — On the Brink of Kink

This month’s audio is rated 🌢🌢🌢🌢

Kink…what does that conjure up for you? Well, let me unpack what I really mean —

Kink is a way for you and your partner to explore all of the acts of play and sensuality that you consensually agree to experience together. Kinky sex can exist on a spectrum, just like our audios. It can go from one chili pepper to five chili peppers. Kinky sex helps you enhance your intimacy, heighten your senses and deepen your experiences.

Even if you are thinking — no, not an option — listen to the audio. It may open up the concept of taking your relationship further without stepping over your boundaries. Maybe you and your partner can explore how many chili peppers you want your sex life to be.

Your Insider’s Membership is designed to help you keep sex top of mind and explore all the ways you and your partner can deepen your connection and your sex life. So why not give it a try?

Give it a listen… 🎧

** You definitely want to put in the earbuds for this BTS audio. This content is adult focused. **

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Inspired Action — Live a Designed Life

Do you ever get “advice” from a well-intentioned friend or family member on about your relationship and think “You can’t be serious” because they don’t know the inner workings of your relationship?

Most of us do!Β  The most powerful truth about your relationship is that you and your partner make all the rules. No one else gets a vote.

What rules do you have in your relationship that are focused on fun, pleasure or play?

This month your member exclusive audio lays out a few guidelines for implementing your own set of pleasure rules. Listen with your partner if you can. Create your relationship ritual/rule that you both can get behind and have FUN β™₯️

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The Pulse — Curious About Exploring Kink?

This month, your Bonus Activities have a TON of suggestions to help you explore your kinky side.

I’ve suggested 2 books, 2 sexy songs and 2 films from our Erotic Film section.Β  Click around and see what will work best for you and your partner.Β  The most important thing is that you have fun and enjoy each other.

πŸ“•From our Member’s Library:

Screw the Roses, Give me the Thorns by Philip Miller and Molly Devon, a classic exploratory book on BDSM.

The Story of O by Pauline Reage, a fictional a novel written in 1954 under the pen name Pauline Reage. Considered controversial by some feminists, The Story of O won the French Literature Prize in 1955.

🎡From our High Vibe Jukebox:

What fun would our playlist be without a little “JT” in the mix? Check out High Vibe Music list and bring that sexy back:)

🎬From our Erotic Films Suite:

An Appointment with My Master – a short film that shows a very intense moment of lust, submission, domination, pain, communication and complicity.

Dominance and Submission – The Lesbian ExperienceFour stories that explore the limits of sexual slavery.