I recently wrote about a fight my spouse and I had in an article titled “What My Partner and I Learned From Our Glorious Fight Last Week“. Working through our disagreement brought us closer together. In the article, I highlight four important questions couples must ask while in conflict to reestablish connection and generate resolution. When I reflect on our fight, we did not directly ask these four questions and our discussion was not linear. In an indirect, organic form, this is what our process looked like.