Does Your Sex Life Feel Routine, Lazy and Uninspiring?

Are You Tired of Just Coexisting Together?

You may lie awake at night, scrolling your cell phone, next to your snoring partner whose back is turned to you, wondering…

“Is this as good as it gets?”

 We say No!

You can have a great sex life and feel like a fun, playful, loving couple again!

It’s all possible with Intimacy Insiders!

Intimacy Insiders is a private online membership for couples looking to get their spark back.

That’s right.

Your Spark. Your Mojo. Your Va-Va-Voom!

Only $8.25 per month / $99 a year
billed yearly

You deserve to get turned on!

Not just to sex but to your life!

Sex is your creative energy.

It’s “life force” energy.

When it’s toned down or not happening,

you’re just not living your fullest potential.

Too many couples settle for “good enough” sex.

Which can work on occasion.

But when it becomes your default,

love and sex can feel lifeless.

Picture your sex life for a moment. Imagine ….

Having sex positive conversations

Sharing love with ease and consistency

Being in sexual flow with each other

Feeling alive in your partner’s embrace

Creating sex worth wanting

Each month, we upload new content that focuses on any of the following:

  • Sex education

  • Sexual techniques

  • Touch exercises

  • Bonding exercises

  • Conversation starters

  • Date Night ideas

  • Downloadable exercises

  • Monthly couples mantras

  • Extraordinary communication

  • Say Yes to Life! Music Playlist

  • Curated resources for couples

Sign Up Now

Only $8.25 per month / $99 a year
billed yearly

We store each month’s content right inside the membership portal so that

you can access it any time, anywhere you want it.

Ooooh la la….

“Our marriage had come to a standstill and the longer we went without addressing the issue, the easier it became to live like friends instead of lovers. Insiders has been great for us. It’s easy and the activities are great.

Re-engaging after such a long time (8 months!) without physical intimacy was so much easier since we had something to follow — the audio on Sensate focus was just what we needed. We now have a more active sex life and more importantly, we see each other as lovers, not just friends.”

R. Insiders Member

“I love this membership. Our marriage wasn’t bad, but it wasn’t great either. The kids take so much of our time and at the end of the day neither one of us was trying too hard to be sexy.

What I love is that we get weekly reminders and new things to do with each other each month. The pressure is gone to be creative. We even find ourselves looking forward to what’s next. Thank you.”

T. Insiders Member

“We’ve got a great relationship…just wanted to have more fun with each other and Insiders is perfect for that.

We also like that it allows us to go deeper with each other than we would on our own. Oh, and Carolynn’s audios are awesome 😉 “

A. Insiders Member

“We stopped communicating at some point and have been struggling ever since. We didn’t know how to start a conversation anymore. We both wanted it to be different but we couldn’t figure out how to get out of the rut.

Insiders has helped us have more conversations and it has helped us focus on each other again. I feel like I’ve fallen in love all over again.”

M. Insiders Member

Don’t let your dull energy take charge of you right now. 

Because it will. 

Your ho-hum self is going to tell you:

“I don’t know…”
Yes, you do!

“Nothing is really going to change”
Especially if you keep doing the same thing

“My partner is never going to do this with me”
We teach you how to invite them in

“I don’t have the time”
If you surf social media or watch TV, you have the time

“I’m just too tired”
This will energize you

“I’m too embarrassed”
Time to lose the inhibition

“I don’t want to spend the money”
Price = one large fancy coffee per month

“I don’t like getting out of my comfort zone”
Snore

“What if my partner wants more from me?”
Good sex makes you want to give more

“I don’t like sex all that much”
We can teach you how to create sex worth wanting

“I don’t like change”
Snore

“What if someone found out I joined this?”
No community forums here, just email and a website

We’ve heard it all.

And we know that part of you is hesitant.

And part of you is curious.

Not only curious about the membership.

But curious about expanding into a better version of you and your love.

You have to admit, taking this small risk is far from snoozy and ho-hum.

It’s not dull. It’s not the same ol’ same ol’.

It’s one step out of your routine.

And healthy risks can be kind o’ sexy.

Look at you, you sexy devil you!

Only $8.25 per month / $99 a year
billed yearly

We’ve heard it all.

And we know that part of you is hesitant.

And part of you is curious.

Not only curious about the membership.

But curious about expanding into a better version of you and your love.

You have to admit, taking this small risk is far from snoozy and ho-hum.

It’s not dull. It’s not the same ol’ same ol’.

It’s one step out of your routine.

And healthy risks can be kind o’ sexy.

Look at you, you sexy devil you!

Only $8.25 per month / $99 a year
billed yearly

Each month, you will get access to the following:

POWER MANTRA

We create one Power Mantra each month as your monthly “theme”. These short, powerful statements help you stay focused on your connection and love together. We suggest that you practice them daily.

BETWEEN THE SHEETS

Release inhibition, expand your sexuality, connect intimately with your partner and step into greater sexual empowerment. In under 10 minutes, we walk you through one sexy suggestion to try “between the sheets”.

THE PULSE

Keep the pulse of your relationship beating. This fun segment includes anything from sexy song suggestions for your playlist to erotic movie reviews, funny “must see” videos to date night suggestions and more!

INSPIRED ACTION

In these audios, we tie all your month’s offerings together as we dive deep into a topic to help you strengthen your emotional connection. Short and to the point, we quickly inspire you to go from complacent and comfortable to courageous and intentional.

INSIDERS RECAP

Had a busy month? No worries, we recap it all for you and store it right in our easy to access growing database that you can tap into anytime you need it. As long as you’re member, you always have access to this relationship hub! Super convenient, super fun, super high vibe!

INSIDERS BONUSES

Plus, get private access to our library of bonus resources any time you want inspiration and relationship growth! You’ll have access to cutting edge content, sexy suggestions, books, music, videos, relationship calls-to-action and all you need to stay juicy!

It’s time to take sexy action and become an Intimacy Insider Today!

Only $8.25 per month / $99 a year
billed yearly

See you on the Inside!

Intimacy Insiders was created by
Carolynn Aristone, MSW, LCSW, CST

Carolynn has been described as “compassionate, insightful, consummately trustworthy, and calming”.  She and her team help couples tap into the heart and soul of intimacy. Together, they help lay the groundwork for couples to create Exceptional Relationships. 

Bearing witness to her parent’s own marital struggles and divorces as well as overcoming intimacy obstacles in her own 20+ year marriage, she has first-hand experience on what it takes to create a strong, meaningful, intimate life – emotionally, physically and sexually.

As Founder of CIR, Carolynn strives to create innovative services to meet the needs of all couples, from DIY classes to full immersion programs. She supervises her staff members through all aspects of client care ensuring the highest levels of compassion, professionalism and clinical integrity.

Carolynn holds a Masters Degree in Social Work from Rutgers University, NJ, Clinical Licensure in Social Work, Certification from The Gestalt Therapy Institute of Philadelphia, Clinical Certification in Sex Therapy from the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) and Certification in Clinical Social Work Supervision from the National Association of Social Workers. Carolynn is also an expert author for GoodTherapy.org.

When Carolynn isn’t working, she can be found enjoying the outdoors with her husband and two sons, attending high energy music concerts or laughing…a lot!

Member of the National Association of Social Workers

Member of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists