Our Sex Got Uncomfortable

Q. My boyfriend of 1 year has recently told me having sex with me makes him uncomfortable. Our sex life was great for the first 4 months of dating, tapered off for another 6 months and now we haven’t had sex in 2 months. We are both going to individual therapy to work on increasing our non-sexual intimacy but is there anything else we can be doing? Is our situation hopeless?

A. Sex is a multi-layered experience where so many factors influence levels of sexual engagement. Please click on the link below for my answer to your question.


This video is for educational purposes only. This video is not intended to be psychotherapy or a replacement for psychotherapy.

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