4 Steps That Create Compassion in the Face of Conflict

Do you remember George and Karen*? Always fighting to win the battle between them? Their quest for victory left no room for compassionate dialogue. I am not anti-conflict. In fact, I see conflict as an important and healthy component in relationship when used constructively. Conflict serves as a catalyst for [...]

4 Steps That Create Compassion in the Face of Conflict2018-04-26T20:35:04+00:00

Do You Fight To Win?

When couples come into my office, they are stuck and in conflict. Some are clearly fighting to win the battle. They painfully cycle through patterns of blame, resentment and righteousness. George and Karen* came to see me for “communication problems”. In session, their conversations played out exactly what happened [...]

Do You Fight To Win?2019-02-12T00:35:15+00:00