What We Learned From Our Glorious Fight Last Week

I recently wrote about a fight my spouse and I had in an article titled "What My Partner and I Learned From Our Glorious Fight Last Week". Working through our disagreement brought us closer together. In the article, I highlight four important questions couples must ask while in conflict to reestablish connection and generate [...]

What We Learned From Our Glorious Fight Last Week2018-04-26T18:02:50+00:00

Do You Fight To Win?

When couples come into my office, they are stuck and in conflict. Some are clearly fighting to win the battle. They painfully cycle through patterns of blame, resentment and righteousness. George and Karen* came to see me for “communication problems”. In session, their conversations played out exactly what happened between [...]

Do You Fight To Win?2018-04-26T20:37:38+00:00