Anxiety, Loss and Resilience: 3 Emotions That You Can Grow From

Have you ever thought – “My partner isn’t attracted to me anymore!  She/he never acts excited to see me. Why can’t it be like it was in the beginning?” over and over again? Take a breath. It’s not uncommon to wonder “What went wrong?” in your long-term relationship.  Let’s give [...]

Anxiety, Loss and Resilience: 3 Emotions That You Can Grow From2018-05-16T17:29:19+00:00

The Magic In Your Marriage

I just returned from a weekend of wedding bliss. Through the legalization of same-sex marriage in NJ, my beautiful niece and her stunning bride declared their unconditional love for each other before 150 family members and friends. This right, this ritual, to love who we want to love, to declare [...]

The Magic In Your Marriage2018-04-30T21:07:28+00:00

Together Yet Separate

I met my spouse 19 years ago. At our wedding ceremony, a friend read the following poem: On Marriage by Kahlil Gibran You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore. You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days. Ay, you shall be together [...]

Together Yet Separate2018-05-02T21:27:46+00:00

Should You Leave?

As my birthday approaches at the end of this week, I've been thinking about what I've learned over the years. Of my various experiences and lessons, one stands out above all others. It transformed my approach to life. It all started in a casual conversation with my good friend and [...]

Should You Leave?2018-05-02T21:19:17+00:00