3 Simple Tips to Manage Conflict Better

Wouldn’t it be great if you and your partner just got along all the time? Great fantasy! The reality? Conflict will show up even in the least expected moments. Rather than wishing conflict away, focus on doing conflict well. Successful couples are those who move through conflict maturely because conflict is inevitable. Conflict will [...]

3 Simple Tips to Manage Conflict Better2018-07-18T20:42:45+00:00

Are You Willing to Do The Work?

Your sex life doesn’t sit in a vacuum.  In a long-term relationship, good sex is dependent on many things.  If there is any part of you that thinks sex should “just happen” - organically, naturally, fluidly, spontaneously, at will - well, you will be sadly disappointed. I wish it [...]

Are You Willing to Do The Work?2018-07-05T21:35:45+00:00

How To Talk About Sex, Part 3 of 5: “Let’s Have Sex” Talk

In Part 3 of our series that focuses on how to talk about sex, I address the sexual myth “sex should be spontaneous”. Many couples question their relationship when sex stops happening. When I suggest scheduling sex, they might even balk at me and tell me this turns them off. [...]

How To Talk About Sex, Part 3 of 5: “Let’s Have Sex” Talk2018-04-26T20:51:02+00:00