Are You Willing to Do The Work?

Your sex life doesn’t sit in a vacuum.  In a long-term relationship, good sex is dependent on many things.  If there is any part of you that thinks sex should “just happen” - organically, naturally, fluidly, spontaneously, at will - well, you will be sadly disappointed. I wish it [...]

Are You Willing to Do The Work?2018-07-05T21:35:45+00:00

How To Talk About Sex, Part 3 of 5: “Let’s Have Sex” Talk

In Part 3 of our series that focuses on how to talk about sex, I address the sexual myth “sex should be spontaneous”. Many couples question their relationship when sex stops happening. When I suggest scheduling sex, they might even balk at me and tell me this turns them off. [...]

How To Talk About Sex, Part 3 of 5: “Let’s Have Sex” Talk2018-04-26T20:51:02+00:00