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The “P” Word: Is It Okay to Watch?
Is Porn Accepted in Your Relationship? Many couples have conflicts about the role of pornography in their relationship. You may flat out refuse to allow it. You might sneak your viewing and keep it a secret. You may view porn as cheating. You might use it to learn...
Should You Schedule Sex with Your Partner? Part Two
Should you schedule Sex? Part Two.... In Part One I talked about the misconceptions associated with scheduling sex with your partner. READ Part One HERE. In this post, I want to share the important tips for having the conversation about scheduling sex and how you can...
Mmmmm…Kissing
Why you need to makeout with your partner... I'm obsessed with this video, First Kiss. Not surprisingly, it went viral when published on YouTube. I admit that I've watched it several times and have been swept into it's magic each and every time. I notice that when I...
How Humor Strengthens Your Relationship
Is there Humor in your relationship? Do you laugh at yourself? Or, do you take yourself too seriously? Laughter can be THE best medicine. A good sense of humor can strengthen your relationship with yourself and others. If you’ve ever been to therapy, you know some...
Are You Too Busy to Enjoy Your Life? 3 Questions to Ask Yourself
If I asked you how you’re doing, right now, how would you respond? Most of us would respond with this one word, “busy” (two words if we’ve been feeling “crazy busy”). I am right there on that busy train with you. We all wear multiple hats. Chronic busyness leads to...
21 Cheap and Thoughtful Ways to Celebrate Valentine’s Day
What keeps long-term relationships alive? Novelty. New experiences. Stepping outside of your typical box. This does not require expensive gifts! Let love and affection lead your celebration of romance this Valentine's Day. Some of the ideas below are not rocket...
3 Steps to Improving Intimacy: What is Your Relationship EPS?
This is for you whether or not you are in a relationship. If you are in a relationship, think of these steps as a how-to guide to improving intimacy in your relationship. If you are single, think of these steps as a way to spark the relationship you want to create. If...
11 Questions to Help You Create an Intentional New Year
Sometimes, I love the fresh start of the New Year. I’ve even noticed that on certain years, I've felt eager to see the previous year go. Have you been there too? This fall, I’ve been more thoughtful about preparing for next year than ever before. It’s felt good to...
5 Step Process to Intimate Love
Do you fear intimate love? You're not the only one. We all want deep connection. Sometimes we even crave it. Yet, we find ways to block or ignore intimate moments. Want some examples? Staying single. Spending more time on tech than with our partners. Sustaining...
Lessons on Romantic Love This Valentine’s Day
Lessons on Romantic Love If you haven’t caught this sweet, super short love story called "A Romance That Started With a Mistake", recorded for StoryCorps, then click the link to listen and come back to this post. I'm struck by how Bill and Claudia touch on key...
The Emotional Life of Men
Emotional Life of Men Two nights ago, my family and I ate dinner together at our dining room table. Out of the blue, my 4yo son said to his 6 yo older brother, “Sebastian, I love you". Sebastian responded, “Thanks Ev, that's nice to hear, I feel good when you say...
6 Intimacy Myths You Need To Know
Intimacy is an experience. You can’t buy, own or touch intimacy. Most partners claim they want an intimate relationship but struggle to define or understand intimacy. Below I debunk 6 myths about intimacy that very regularly show up in my conversations with couples....
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