Understanding Partner Differences Something happens to us in early courtship. Flooded with hormones, we see our partner through a blind set of eyes. They can do no wrong. They light us up from within. They’re everything we’ve ever wanted. “Soulmates”. We tend to see ourselves in our partner. ♥️ READ MORE
Sensate Focus In couples and sex therapy, one of the best suggestions we give some couples who struggle with sex is to not have sex. Seems counterintuitive, right? After all, how are couples supposed to work on their sex life or create better sex if they stop having ♥️ READ MORE
What Sex-Ed Didn’t Teach You Wouldn’t it be great if our parents and the systems at large helped us learn, at an early age, about how to be in a sexual relationship with someone else? In couples and sex therapy, the majority of individuals and couples that we ♥️ READ MORE
Sexual desire mismatch may be more common than you realize. Our team of relationship and sex therapists see a common problem amongst couples: one partner often wants more sex than the other. We can safely say that we discuss this with clients on a weekly basis. It’s that ♥️ READ MORE
Get Your Sex Live Back on Track Your sex life doesn’t sit in a vacuum. In a long-term relationship, good sex is dependent on many things. If there is any part of you that thinks sex should “just happen” - organically, naturally, fluidly, spontaneously, at will - well, you ♥️ READ MORE
Are you living in a sexless marriage? Perhaps you’re one of those couples that from the outside everything looks picture-perfect, but you carry a secret that no one knows about. You and your partner don’t touch each other, you don’t get intimate with each other, and you don’t have ♥️ READ MORE
Emotional Affairs This subject is one that so many couples struggle with. Here's an actual scenario presented by a female partner that I wanted to share with you. ★ I have a situation where I feel like it is possible that my husband of 18 years ♥️ READ MORE
Question: During sex I feel like I am doing all of the work, sex is seeming like a one way thing and my girlfriend doesn’t reciprocate acts or seem interested in focusing on me. She is always ‘too tired’ or just says no. I’m really struggling ♥️ READ MORE
