Your sex life doesn’t sit in a vacuum. In a long-term relationship, good sex is dependent on many things. If there is any part of you that thinks sex should “just happen” - organically, naturally, fluidly, spontaneously, at will - well, you will be sadly disappointed. I wish it [...]
Are you living in a sexless marriage? Perhaps you’re one of those couples that from the outside everything looks picture-perfect, but you carry a secret that no one knows about. You and your partner don’t touch each other, you don’t get intimate with each other, and you don’t have [...]
In sex therapy, we focus on much more than anatomy. If you only had to figure out how to make “the parts” work together, then an instruction manual would do. But what happens when the parts work together yet you still have problems? Let me introduce you to what I call, [...]
No one welcomes erectile dysfunction, also known as ED. Up to 30 million men in the United States experience ED in their lifetime. ED is the inability to achieve or maintain an erection throughout the completion of sexual activity for a period of 6 months. The emergence of this dysfunction often [...]
Two days ago, my almost 5 year old son sat on my bed playing cars while I laid out my clothes for the day, including some new undergarments. He picked up my bra and said, "So mom, how do you like your new bras?" Amused by his inquiry, I [...]
Do you hesitate to engage in sex therapy? Perhaps you want to ask: "Is there any sex in therapy?" or, "Will I have to take my clothes off?" or even, "Do you offer hands-on services?". I have also been asked, "Is this going to be like the movie The Sessions [...]
As I dressed for my day, my inquisitive 4 year old son rolled his toy car around on the carpet floor and glanced at my body. He can easily identify my vulva, breasts and butt along with my arms, belly and legs. Some days, he's more interested in his toy [...]
